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I spent the ENTIRE day over at her house today. Nothing. We probably woulda scored if our mate didn't show up. *sigh*
I just dont know. I know she doesn't want a relationship with anyone, and I'm a fucking mess of a person but desperately want a relationship that I will instantly sabotage before anyone else gets to end it.
Recipe for disaster? Much so.
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Huzzah Lauren has a love life! <: o)
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Huzzah Lauren has a love life! <: o)
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Welcome back, even though you were closer to me while in Europe.
Ahhhhh I love you, Sean. That was the best welcoming I've received yet! 
But yes, complicated love life is complicated. It's quite the long story, and it all happened over a 9 hour flight from Frankfurt to Philly. The abridged version is that a boy with a girlfriend who I didn't even think knew I existed 10 days ago apparently has quite the thing for me. And he's really attractive and sweet and I don't know what to do.
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Don't have a love life at the moment which incidently will be my complaint, never been in a relationship and i'm nearly 20. Never had a girl have a thing for me.
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Don't have a love life at the moment which incidently will be my complaint, never been in a relationship and i'm nearly 20. Never had a girl have a thing for me.
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This, but make it over 21 years old.
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Don't have a love life at the moment which incidently will be my complaint, never been in a relationship and i'm nearly 20. Never had a girl have a thing for me.
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Oooo, new page.
Ah Steve if only you wouldn't pick shit bands in the BotB thread... Nah it's probably not that. Don't know if it sounds familiar, but I was in the "trying to get some" phase for a few years (age 16-18 ), then I had various ups and downs feeling no one cared about me. Then over the summer (last, so at 19 & 3/4) I had a good summer, confidence galored and without trying I found someone who had "a thing" for me. We've been done now for a month, but the confidence sort of stuck (when I'm drunk enough).
tl;dr: I know how hard it is not to constantly look for "it", but I've found it's the best way. We're the good guys (well I am, and I think you are too). Ultimately, we have to prevail, rite?
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Ahhhhh I love you, Sean. That was the best welcoming I've received yet!
But yes, complicated love life is complicated. It's quite the long story, and it all happened over a 9 hour flight from Frankfurt to Philly. The abridged version is that a boy with a girlfriend who I didn't even think knew I existed 10 days ago apparently has quite the thing for me. And he's really attractive and sweet and I don't know what to do.
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Bam and immediately it's mile high style. Sounds like an Alex II (no offence Alex), I think he should get his stuff straightened out first, but in the mean time, you should definitely consider blowing his mind!
And I'm always on the other side of your PM inbox (or outbox I think, dunno)!
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Don't have a love life at the moment which incidently will be my complaint, never been in a relationship and i'm nearly 20. Never had a girl have a thing for me.
That is all.
Oooo, new page.
This, but make it over 21 years old.
I'm sort of in the same boat. I've had one girl had a 'thing' for me but I don't think it was genuine, and I realised about 2 into the relationship I felt the same. We were probably both just in it because we liked each other about 6 years ago in school and never done anything about it. How old feelings rush back when you re-meet someone.
Anyway, to follow up my complaint from earlier... the girl I like now has a boyfriend, and I feel horribly awkward talking to her now. What makes it worse is that she's acting as if everything is normal, but I'm 99% sure she knew I liked her and so she must realise her going out with someone is bothering me. It'd probably be easier if I didn't talk to her at all any more, but I still want her to be my friend. I don't think that's unreasonable, but it might be a bit stupid. Might make it harder to move on.
Shit, I don't know. A month or two ago I was feeling relatively positive about my 'love life', or the potential of actually getting one. Now it's all went to shit again and I don't really know where to go from here
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Ahhhhh I love you, Sean. That was the best welcoming I've received yet!
But yes, complicated love life is complicated. It's quite the long story, and it all happened over a 9 hour flight from Frankfurt to Philly. The abridged version is that a boy with a girlfriend who I didn't even think knew I existed 10 days ago apparently has quite the thing for me. And he's really attractive and sweet and I don't know what to do.
Anytime.
Bam and immediately it's mile high style. Sounds like an Alex II (no offence Alex), I think he should get his stuff straightened out first, but in the mean time, you should definitely consider blowing his mind!
And I'm always on the other side of your PM inbox (or outbox I think, dunno)!
No offense taken, don't worry. :P Though Lauren, to give you some jaded, "been there, done that" advice, if he's anything like my guy...it's not worth it. I mean, this also depends on how you feel about pursuing him.  Read my post right before yours and consider me "the ghost of love life future." Seriously. The pain/frustration is not worth it, no matter how sweet he might seem. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, you're gonna end up picking up numerous bloody pieces in the aftermath.
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Don't have a love life at the moment which incidently will be my complaint, never been in a relationship and i'm nearly 20. Never had a girl have a thing for me.
That is all.
Oooo, new page.
This, but make it over 21 years old.
I'm sort of in the same boat. I've had one girl had a 'thing' for me but I don't think it was genuine, and I realised about 2 into the relationship I felt the same. We were probably both just in it because we liked each other about 6 years ago in school and never done anything about it. How old feelings rush back when you re-meet someone.
Anyway, to follow up my complaint from earlier... the girl I like now has a boyfriend, and I feel horribly awkward talking to her now. What makes it worse is that she's acting as if everything is normal, but I'm 99% sure she knew I liked her and so she must realise her going out with someone is bothering me. It'd probably be easier if I didn't talk to her at all any more, but I still want her to be my friend. I don't think that's unreasonable, but it might be a bit stupid. Might make it harder to move on.
Shit, I don't know. A month or two ago I was feeling relatively positive about my 'love life', or the potential of actually getting one. Now it's all went to shit again and I don't really know where to go from here
Same boat, but I'm 27! I think I win, guys. Uh....more like I lose...
I'm not really that bitter about it. I go through phases on occasion where I feel like girls just don't really care to give me the time of day. But in the end, I know I am well-liked by some. I even learned that a girl I used to be into was into me as well, but let's just say I haven't ran into the right situation yet. Yeah, it sounds like the right situation, but trust me, it's not haha.
James, I was in a similar predicament as you. Well, slightly different. Last year, I started to really like someone I knew from a few years back. I reacquainted with her and would see her around more because we were in the same circle of friends. It got to a point where I'm pretty sure she knew I was into her. I would often ask to hang out and even got her flowers one time. The thing is, she was very hard to reach (it wasn't just me...or was it?) and the one time I decided to make a move, I just couldn't get in contact with her. Soon after, I just got over her. I guess the difference is that during this whole time she was single. The thing is, I honestly didn't find it that hard to get over her. Maybe because she's genuinely just a great friend and I'll take that with no hesitation.
In your situation, I'm sure it's been hard on you. But it's not stupid to take that friendship...you'll move on eventually! And in time it'll become less awkward. This same girl I liked has gotten back with her ex for months now, but our friendship has still been blossoming and I honestly don't have thoughts like "I wish we were together instead". Most recently, she organized a dinner for my birthday and I had a bit too much to eat and drink, so she let me stay at her place. She was very caring and we just had a really nice chit chat.
At the same time, I feel like I may be crossing my boundaries? After all, she's now in a relationship. For example, next week I'm going to a restaurant I've been wanting to try with my bro and his gf next week and have reservations for 4. I told her about it at the recent dinner and she said she was definitely interested in trying that place. So yesterday I texted her if she wanted to go. She hasn't responded yet, but I wonder if she takes it as if I am still interested because I obviously was before. To be honest, it's not a big deal if she declines, but I've grown to really enjoy her company.
Thoughts?
Whoa, long message. I guess my main point is things'll work out. Maybe you'll still have a chance down the road. If not, you'll learn to move on and a friendship is not half bad.
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Ahhhhh I love you, Sean. That was the best welcoming I've received yet!
But yes, complicated love life is complicated. It's quite the long story, and it all happened over a 9 hour flight from Frankfurt to Philly. The abridged version is that a boy with a girlfriend who I didn't even think knew I existed 10 days ago apparently has quite the thing for me. And he's really attractive and sweet and I don't know what to do.
Anytime.
Bam and immediately it's mile high style. Sounds like an Alex II (no offence Alex), I think he should get his stuff straightened out first, but in the mean time, you should definitely consider blowing his mind!
And I'm always on the other side of your PM inbox (or outbox I think, dunno)!
No offense taken, don't worry. :P Though Lauren, to give you some jaded, "been there, done that" advice, if he's anything like my guy...it's not worth it. I mean, this also depends on how you feel about pursuing him. Read my post right before yours and consider me "the ghost of love life future." Seriously. The pain/frustration is not worth it, no matter how sweet he might seem. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, you're gonna end up picking up numerous bloody pieces in the aftermath.
Thanks to both of you. the thing about it is that this guy has a reputation for wanting to get with anything that has a pulse. But I clearly told him that I was not going to be a home wrecker and ruin his current relationship and that I am not the kind of person who does random hookups. And he has STILL been sending me texts all night, even after I fell asleep and stopped responding. And he is one of those guys that typically hates girls like me. He's a super jock and a player and I'm a theatre geek. the fact that he seems to really want to get in my pants just makes absolutely no sense to me. I'm trying to tell him that I don't want a relationship with him and that we can still be friends, but then he comes back with "fine, but I still want to kiss you." How does one respond to that?! I know I just need to cut ties with him all together, but he's being so persistent and doesn't seem to be taking any of my hints. And I only said my first word to him 10 days ago! This is so random and weird. But I get what you're saying, Alex. Better safe than sorry.
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^ Sounds like he gets off on your rejection since he never gets turned down. There's nothing you can really do except continuously turn him down. If it comes to a point where you can't take it, you have to leave. The fact that he has a girlfriend and wants another girl should be more than enough to know his a cheat and would do it to you as well.
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Cried myself to sleep last night. Awesome. I have no idea how to deal with this, because I've lost him as a friend too, it seems. And I don't handle losing close friends well. This wouldn't be so bad if I knew WHAT was causing this behavior, but I literally have no fucking clue as to what I did.
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My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to Reading yet he gets to go on a lads holiday to a load of strip clubs, yeah that seems fair 
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And in the half light
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We were kinda planning on going away somewhere for the weekend but I really want to go to Reading!
Now that nights closing in
And in the half light
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Lock us up safe
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And in the half light
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have to try and make an exception for reading or else you could end up regretting it.
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