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I don't know the full extent of it (I've been told a few things but she's no doubt said more than what I'm aware of, knowing her), but from what I've been told she's been taking things I did with her and twisting it or exaggerating it to make me look like some sort of weirdo/scumbag, I don't really wanna elaborate on that because like I said she's exaggerating actual stuff that happened and I find it personal tbh, so I'm pissed off about the fact she's just telling people about stuff like that and I'm also pissed off about the fact she's trying to screw over my social life/potential relationship.
And she's also blatantly making shit up about me, I won't mind sharing this because unlike the other stuff, the following is full-on lies. She's said that I used to try and pressure her into sex, she said that I used to send her abusive texts, she said that I used to harass her (online, in person and through text) and she's also - here's the weird part, since there's nothing to gain from saying this, at least if people believe the other stuff they'd hate me for it so she'd have gained something, but this, I've got no idea where she's going with it - been telling the girl that I'm gay or bisexual (from what I can gather she's being inconsistent about this part).
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Oh and I thought I'd add this as well; she's deleted EVERY girl from her Facebook friends that she knows I've started to talk to, better yet she's totally removed them from her life. I think it's more than a coincidence, she's clearly done this because I talk to them since she hasn't deleted anyone else apparently.
bitches be crazy.
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@Cross_Pollination. It sounds to me like she has some form of feelings for you or she completely fucking hates you for some reason.
My problem: Things aren't going so well. I am very worried in the next couple of weeks I'll be dumped by my Girlfriend.
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Sucks to hear that, Alex  What makes you think that?
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We're arguing a lot now, like, she thinks I don't see everything in the same way as she does, and because of this she thinks the things she values aren't regarded as important. Once she gets an idea like this into her head she finds it extremely hard to get rid of it.
Her terrible lack of understanding is destroying our relationship, when I try to make her see things from my point of view, she automatically makes it out that I'm making an argument about myself. When all I'm trying to do is telling her my side of the story. She doesn't actually listen to me.
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Looking back on old posts on this thread for some reason. I have apparently been playing hopscotch around the same 3 girls for the last 18 months by the looks of it. Terrible.
Went back to one of the 3's house last night. Fun times. 
If my best mate finds out, we're screwed though, due to his silly sense of ownership. Cunt.
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We're arguing a lot now, like, she thinks I don't see everything in the same way as she does, and because of this she thinks the things she values aren't regarded as important. Once she gets an idea like this into her head she finds it extremely hard to get rid of it.
Her terrible lack of understanding is destroying our relationship, when I try to make her see things from my point of view, she automatically makes it out that I'm making an argument about myself. When all I'm trying to do is telling her my side of the story. She doesn't actually listen to me.
Eugh, that's terrible! Well, really my only advice is try to talk to her. Though I understand that isn't exactly easy, given the situation. If you're sure she's going to dump you you could use this to your advantage and sort of give her an ultimatum. Either she starts listening to you, or it's over.
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So, he and his girlfriend broke up. But they've been on the rocks for a while now, so I don't think it has anything to do with me. I guess that should be good for me, but I don't know. I'll just have to see how everything pans out now, I suppose.
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pffft. why cant i shake the feeling that me and issy have an expiry date?
Don't listen to that feeling. You'll know when you know.
You know I still adore you
But in a different kind of way
You know I still adore you
But things have gotten vague
Baby I dont ask for much but things have gotten convenient
You know I still adore you but things, have kind of changed
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brewstercraven :
pffft. why cant i shake the feeling that me and issy have an expiry date?
Don't listen to that feeling. You'll know when you know.
well A. we do actually have a deadline. aussie qualifications for uni have an expiry date so she is pretty much definatly going to be gone but thats ages away.
B. shes heading off travelling soon and coming back to hanoi to start proper paid work (shes volunteering atm) in july but the 1st few months getting yourself set up here can be pretty hard so she might not be able to do that when she would be here for about 5 months before going home.
C. shes going home for xmas and unless things are going stupidly well for her over here she might not come back.
D. her sister is pretty ill and the doctors cant find a proper diagnosis.
bah.
Do you know how I know we are going have sex? Because Im stronger than you.
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Aww sorry to hear that Well if you are good together you will get through it I am sure
You know I still adore you
But in a different kind of way
You know I still adore you
But things have gotten vague
Baby I dont ask for much but things have gotten convenient
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I'm trying to figure out what's worse... finding out the person you like is now going out with someone else, or the ensuing jealousy.
Let's just say both fucking suck.
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Yes, they both suck.
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*sigh* Sexually frustrated, party of one.
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^Um. Yeah, same here. Like you would not believe.
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Can I join and be chair of the "No end in sight" branch?
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Sometimes I think it's worse to have an end in sight, but know that you'll never be able to reach it, than not have an end in sight at all. But, regardless, it sucks no matter what. Plain and simple.
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You mean like when it's kind of someone's fault?
That's always lame too 
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*sigh* Sexually frustrated, party of one.
Bam. Same here.
You know when all your friends have girlfriends and getting to spend time with them gets reduced massively.
And then you realise you're own lonliness? Dam thats a double whammy.
Bugger.
Additionally, seeing your ex madly in love with another boy, knowing she didn't like you that much, thats also very pooey.
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You know when all your friends have girlfriends and getting to spend time with them gets reduced massively.
And then you realise you're own lonliness? Dam thats a double whammy.
Bugger.
Additionally, seeing your ex madly in love with another boy, knowing she didn't like you that much, thats also very pooey.
I know what you mean. Those are all absolute killers, especially realising your own loneliness
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You know when all your friends have girlfriends and getting to spend time with them gets reduced massively.
And then you realise you're own lonliness? Dam thats a double whammy.
Bugger.
DING DING DING. We have a winner.
It just recently occurred to me that I am really the only one of my friends who has never had a "real" relationship, and in I have never been been both completely physically and emotionally satisfied with any guy in my life. And it sucks. Maybe that's why I'm having so much trouble wrestling with this one guy (figuratively, not literally). He is interested in me, but I know that all I would be getting from him is physical satisfaction. I have no emotional connection with him whatsoever, I have come to realize. But I'm so desperate for a way out of my loneliness that I'm considering giving up my morals to satisfy at least one half of this never ending struggle to feel satisfied. And that's all my life has consisted of. For one reason or another, that feeling of wholeness that you get in a relationship has never been attainable for me. And that's where my loneliness is coming from. I'm the only one of my friends that can never got both sides of the equation at the same time. And sometimes I feel like that's worse than having the equation be empty all together.
That vent really had nothing to do with your comment, Chris, I just had a thought and felt like sharing. Ignore me. I'll be off now.
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^ I kinda know how that feels, it sucks so much. I've never gotten anything from a relationship.
Also, I've fucked up beyond repair.
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You know when all your friends have girlfriends and getting to spend time with them gets reduced massively.
And then you realise you're own lonliness? Dam thats a double whammy.
Bugger.
DING DING DING. We have a winner.
It just recently occurred to me that I am really the only one of my friends who has never had a "real" relationship, and in I have never been been both completely physically and emotionally satisfied with any guy in my life. And it sucks. Maybe that's why I'm having so much trouble wrestling with this one guy (figuratively, not literally). He is interested in me, but I know that all I would be getting from him is physical satisfaction. I have no emotional connection with him whatsoever, I have come to realize. But I'm so desperate for a way out of my loneliness that I'm considering giving up my morals to satisfy at least one half of this never ending struggle to feel satisfied. And that's all my life has consisted of. For one reason or another, that feeling of wholeness that you get in a relationship has never been attainable for me. And that's where my loneliness is coming from. I'm the only one of my friends that can never got both sides of the equation at the same time. And sometimes I feel like that's worse than having the equation be empty all together.
That vent really had nothing to do with your comment, Chris, I just had a thought and felt like sharing. Ignore me. I'll be off now.
At least you get people fancying you! 
I don't think anyone in the thread should be single, seems we're all very good!
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Well, you all THINK you're good. Whether you are or not, is impossible to know on a thread such as this.
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At least you get people fancying you!
I don't think anyone in the thread should be single, seems we're all very good!
That's very true. I shouldn't complain so much.
Also, damn right. We're all sexy as hell and wonderful people. It's a mystery why not all of us are in relationships.
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WE'RE ALL DICKS!
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